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Navigating through the messy journey of personal, romantic, and spiritual development
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Join Whitney and Ariel this summer for FREE Virtual New Moon Women's Circles!

- Get to know Whitney and Ariel

- Connect with like-minded womxn

- Set a new moon intention for the coming month

- Share in uplifting and moving through the mess of our lives in communion!

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  • The Zoom link for all circles

  • Dates for all 5 circles

  • Free journal prompts and meditations along the way

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The Messy path

is NOT

spiritual bypassing

the messy path is about what it looks like to do the work

the messy path is the how

to do the work




stay tuned for more information on how to work with Ariel + Whitney in the messy path course!

Life is messy. It’s a beautiful series of events that push us, challenges us and shows us what we can be. 

There are aspects of our mess and experiences that we have no control over. The one thing we can control is our response to it. And then there are aspects of our mess that we create for ourselves - habits that bring us pain, people pleasing tendencies, continuing to be in relationship with people who mistreat us, self-sabotaging behavior around work, romance or friendships. These aren’t your destiny, they’re your lessons to learn from and move through. 

If you’re ready to stop playing a role (like the good girl, the caretaker) and start living authentically as the unique you that you are, this is your spot. When you start to own your mess, break the habits that are holding you back and process the experiences you’ve been through you come out the other side empowered and ready to create the life you most desire. 


This space is held by us, Ariel and Whitney and was created to support you in moving through your mess. We've been in it for years, learning how to manage our own mess, grow as imperfect and beautiful souls, and continue to expand along our own development path. We've been called to guide others along their own journey. Together we have developed tools, workbooks, and gone through training to provide guidance and support systems in order to bring you through your mess and start creating a life you love to be in. 

We're calling it "The Messy Path" because doing the work for personal and spiritual development isn't always easy and pretty, it's not always instant manifestations and sitting peacefully. We're sharing the vulnerable truth about the messy path we've taken along our journey to soulful relationships. 

Our inspiration and goal is that through the merging of our experiences and passion for relationships, by sharing our stories and practices that we can guide women on their paths. That together we can show the variety of paths life takes to finding your true connection and way of being in your life. Join us as we share in the mess and expand on our journey toward soulful relationships. The mess will always be there, it’s how we show up to play with it that matters most. 

The Mess is the journey.



Too often, the course for personal and spiritual development sounds like “follow the good feelings” and all will be well. As much as we’d all like to live in alignment and show up as our Highest Selves as soon as we turn the corner and set our intentions for a life of growth, that’s simply not how it works. The journey through personal and spiritual development isn’t a walk in the park; rather it’s an arduous hike through a dense and rocky forest.


Growth comes through overcoming or moving through contrast. Contrast in itself feels like heartache, a low bank account, another bad date, not enjoying your living situation, not enjoying sex, not feeling satisfied. It feels like and is shadow work, contrast, blocks, anxiety, the unknown, the discomfort. And they come up over and over and over again, taking on different forms, and pushing us to go deeper and grow more.


So what does it look like to actually move through these points of contrast in our lives? What has the “how” that we continue to release actually look like and develop in between sending up our rockets of desire and receiving our manifestations? How do you move towards alignment?


So what do you want to do on this big messy path of yours? How do you want to harness your messy experience and make it truly yours? 


We answer this question together then support you on your journey to moving and growing with your mess. 


Are you ready for it? If this sounds like the work you’re ready to do, this is your next right step. All you need to do is show up here and the rest will unfold. 

Registration is open for our March 2021 session!

Investment and Details 

This 4 week long course will bring you through a series of reflections and work focused on relationships. 

The investment is $333 for the whole series. This includes participation in 8 small group zoom calls lead by Ariel and Whitney, access to a private facebook group, weekly workbook prompts, and a follow up 2:1 after the course wraps where you, Ariel and Whitney will look through your growth over the past month and help you set your next steps for assimilating this beautiful messy work in to your life.


The course




How do you connect to your inner guidance to be led through the mess while you're in it? What does that look and feel like? What do you do when you are doing the work and the work is messy? We'll review our experiences and share practices and exercises to keep going.


Are you using sex for or against you? We'll take an intimate dive into intimacy. How does your relationship with yourself affect your romantic relationships and spiritual journey. 



What story are you telling yourself about the mess? We'll look at the stories holding you back and work to reframe them.



When did you break up with yourself?

The importance of establishing a foundation of self care and soul care through your journey. What it means to have an active relationship with yourself

4 weeks
2 group zoom meetings per week
private facebook group
weekly "homework" & Healing practices
resources & guidance for alignment
follow up 2:1 with Ariel & Whitney 

meet us

meet us

Whitney’s path has led her directly to the work she does today along the messy path. At the age of 13 she asked the Universe to provide her experience with every type of love. So far, the Universe has not disappointed. Her focus is taking the experiences she’s had, paired with tools she’s developed and a certification in life coaching, to support womxn on their journey toward building a relationship with their intuition and soulful relationships in their lives. She offers 1:1 and group sessions as well as a series of workbooks, meeting her clients where they are on their messy path. 

Connect with Whitney

IG: whit_beingoppen


intuitive Relationship Coach



I set my intention to discover and pursue my soul purpose on the precipice of closing my bridal boutique. In the following years, every aspect of my life was dismantled. My messy path has been wrought with heartbreak and job loss. In accordance with my motto to personal and spiritual growth: inward and upward, I turned to RTT which not only reset the foundation and connection to my inner truth, but also identified the answer to my soul purpose. Now, as a certified Rapid Transformational Therapist, I’m passionate about helping women connect and enhance their relationship with self and soul; teaching them to love themselves deeply, call in and develop romantic relationships, connect to their higher self, and bring an enhanced level of confidence to their life and careers. I believe that our spiritual and personal development journey has no destination, but rather a series of check-points along an ever expanding path. I come to you not at the finish line of my journey, but to uplift and enhance you along yours. To me, the journey is doing the work - learning, growing, connecting, enhancing - through the ups and downs of contrasts and manifestations. The journey is the messy path.
IG:  ariels_cosmos








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